Hypnotic Triggers

TRIGGERS. I’m a disbeliever in them.  Yes, shocking, isn’t it, being that I own a hypnotic listing on the Niteflirt platform.  I should be telling you I can trigger you anytime I want, but if I don’t believe in triggers, that would be silly.  What I do believe in, however, is brainwashing, conditioning, and programming.  I have many that will vouch for my expertise in this.  (Of course, they will vouch; they’ve been brainwashed.)
Often, I am emailed asking if I can do this and do that, and will it work.  I offer no guarantees of anything working.  What I can guarantee is that I will do whatever it is I do, to give them a feeling of pleasure, relaxation, and arousal.  I say arousal because my subjects are mainly interested in erotic hypnosis.
With silence at the other end of line, I can often pick up whether it is working or not.  Don’t ask me how, but I can feel the acceptance through the line. Telepathic empathy?   Intuitive deduction?
Who knows?  Who cares?  Let go, free fall…

I don’t think one should bring reason or question into the hypnotic experience.   That rather defeats or hinders what the subject is searching for: a feeling of mentally disappearing and letting go.

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If I repeatedly use the word ‘red’ and at the same time encourage a pleasurable feeling every time I introduce the word, then the subconscious mind is going to equate that with pleasure.  That is not a trigger, in my book, but more a  Pavlovian conditioning.  Seductive conditioning works best.  That’s a no-brainer!

So, please… don’t ask for a magic trigger on a first call.  I might indulge you and oblige, but you better believe I’ll be really working on the first step of conditioning you.

The New Fem-Domme Blog…

Here I will put down my musings, and things that interest me generally.Stories, videos, kinks and fetishes. There are so interests.  So may thoughts, kinky and otherwise.  So much fun to be had here… However, my thoughts are my thoughts and although I am very willing to share them here, I do not expect them to be copied by other so-called… content snatchers.  Copyright – means no right to copy!

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Doesn’t every Mistress really just want to be loved? I don’t mean in a soppy, mushy, romantic way – I mean in an adoring, worshiping, way. I love it when a caller actually takes the time to leave feedback. I never insist, but it is always nice when they do it.  And guess what, there is a correlation here:  My memory of a caller works better when they do something extra for me.  Everyone benefits.

Words from a few of my submissives:

*****Excellent first call. She took her time to get to know my kinks and reeled me in so slow and gentle, but all the time in total control. Truly captivating!
*****The best. She will out think you and then overpower you and make you love it!
*****Wow! She is the best at taking my fantasy to the next level. Very intelligent and intuitive. Love her British accent as well
*****if you have ever wanted the ultimate Goddess, this is the one. You will never in Your life find anyone better. Goddess knows You better than You know Yourself. i love my Goddess.
*****Stirring, rich and textured, first rate, stunning and magnificently crafted – this is an unbelievable woman !

Nice, huh?

psychic mesmerised him to spend 12,000 on her…

The complete article can be found here: Metro.co.uk

‘Psychic mesmerised me to spend £12,000 on her’

When racing driver Jim Gotobed fell for his Tarot card reader he crossed her palm with more than silver.

The 50-year-old amateur racer lavished £12,000 on blonde psychic Tracie Long during a ten-month affair.

But he told magistrates he felt ‘hypnotised’ after his sessions with Ms Long and came out of each one ‘more deeply in love with her’.

Mr Gotobed’s attraction for the psychic, which resulted in him divorcing his wife of 25 years, unfolded in court where he was cleared of harassing Ms Long.

She had accused him of texting her repeatedly, writing to her parents, contacting a local newspaper, reporting her to the spiritualists’ professional association and threatening to kill her.

But magistrates’ chairman Ian Fuller said 48-year-old Ms Long had been ‘evasive’ in her testimony whereas he considered Mr Gotobed to be ‘honest, straightforward and convincing’.

After the case, Mr Gotobed admitted he had been ‘gullible’, adding: ‘I realise now she was after my money.’

The father of two, from Romford, in Essex, said he had known Ms Long 30 years earlier and their friendship was rekindled through Facebook.

He told Chelmsford magistrates’ court her first Tarot reading related to his marriage and she said he should ‘get a quick divorce’.

After further readings, in which he was told to ‘unburden’ himself, the sales manager sold his prized racing car, guns and guitar collections.

He had arranged for his wages to be paid into her account and handed in his notice at work after she told him he wasn’t earning enough. He said Ms Long had told him their future was predicted in the cards and that he would marry her.

Ms Long described his love as ‘obsessed’ and told the court he had threatened to shoot her when their relationship ended.

She said she had only given him a non-professional ‘mini reading’ and denied telling him they would be married.

(Chelmsford  – know it well. Of course, I personally found this article rather amusing.  Others might not find it so.)

I am what I am…

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As you gurls witness every day, there are so many parts that make up YOU. Most of you put on your trousers and shirt and present yourself to the world as a ‘regular guy’ – a real chip off the old block. But then, home alone, or sneaking away, that other part of you, closeted, hidden, demands to be let out. This has probably gone on for years, perhaps starting at a young age, the desire to put on certain female clothing or touching certain fabrics,  and… yeah, that catch of your breath, a quickening of your pulse, and then finding yourself aroused, you touched… Sort of went hand in hand, didn’t it?

And so, more often than not, an addiction settles in and a fetish is born. Why it effects one person more than another, is still a mystery. But as the fetish grows, it metastasizes over the years. Face it. There is no cure, there is no end.

This applies to any fetish, but this is the Sissy Blog and so I am restricting this post to just this sissification/feminization/cross-dressing fetish.  I know how complicated this area is, and so I am stating here I am concentrating my opinion on this fetish.  You chromosome gurls can wait – patience is your virtue.

SO, I personally do not believe a fetish can be eradicated.  Which of you are familiar with taking these steps:

Purging
Not looking at porn
Deleting your hidden porn files on your computer
Deleting websites you frequent
Throwing out any articles of feminine clothing or gurl toys
Taking up a new hobby – exercising, etc.
Seeking therapy or counseling of some sort
Buying books on Self-Help and Building Confidence
Refraining from masturbation
Settling for what you have

And, this works for a while doesn’t it? You begin to feel better about yourself, your confidence improves, and just when you think you’ve conquered and won, the battle begins all over again, only this time all your will to fight has been sapped, and you find yourself almost willfully surrendering. The answer of course is to stop battling. Just accept this side of yourself because it ain’t going anywhere for long. It is an inherent part of you, like it or not–guilt or not!

If you accept the choice isn’t strictly yours to make, and that this sexual turn-on will always be a part of you, you’ll feel less guilty, and less frustrated. And, you will probably not be so weak to the fetish that gnaws away at your resolve.

“I am what I am
And what I am needs no excuses
I deal my own deck
Sometimes the aces sometimes the deuces
It’s one life and there’s no return and no deposit
One life so it’s time to open up your closet
Life’s not worth a dam till you can shout out
I am what I am ”
(La Cage aux Folles)

Okay, maybe you have to shout silently, but you get the ‘note’ I’m making here. Accept yourself for who you are. Maybe you have to hide, maybe you have to stay closeted, but don’t hate yourself for this. And don’t beat yourself up.

Just some thoughts I had while coming on here to post. And, actually, the reason I came on here is to say that in the near future my posts will be on my new website, which is a work in progress. In the meantime, I am doubling up.

Random thoughts, in an understanding mood.
Ms. London.

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